Saturday, October 15, 2016

Woman Shares her inspiring story to stop women from killing their unwanted child after birth

Lady share her story, hope women can consider Giving their unwanted child away to somebody that CARES rather than DUMPING/KILLING the baby after Birth.. Watch video after the cut


She wrote 

I want to share my story and pray its helps sumone make a right decision. Almost two yrs ago i got pregnant out of wedlock for a man i loved wit my hrt and soul, believe it or nt i didnt know i was pregnant until my 6th month. My sons father asked me to abort wit promises of us getting married after i aborted and starting a family da rite way, it was tempting cos to me life wit him would be wonderful. 


He gave me 19k which was no where enough for wat i was abt to do he said he had spoken to da doctor and was going to pay da rest in his account on monday (dat day was a saturday) tho my appointment wit da doctor was nt until da nxt day he insisted i look for another hospital to do it. That evening i went to almost 5 different hospitals but none agreed to do an abortion even my boifrnd was ready to send da rest of da money dat same day instead of monday. 


At 12 am while walking on ikeja bridge i called my bf to tell him i was going home and would go to da other doctor in sango ota when da day broke but he refused saying i should still try and get it over wit but stupid me was begging him to let me go home cos i was tired and it was late, he finally agreed wit da promise of going there first tin in da morning. 


Sunday morning as early as 7am i was at da hospital in sango but luckily for me da doctor was nt on seat it was jst a nurse playing wit a little gurl i thought was her child, dat morning i remember calling him to tell him hw scared i was but he kept on assuring me dat it would be fine and dat da doctor was a professional (even tho da hospital looked wack and was smelling) while waiting it was as if a scale had been removed frm my eyes, da man i was abt to do dis for didnt love me and was only tinking abt his interest and i knew i was going to ruin my life more if i did it. As a stood up and left da hospital da nurse ran after me and asked y i was leaving, in tears i told her everytin dat was happening and y i came in da first place, she told me she was happy i didnt go through wit it and told me abt her sister who had gone through da same tin and dat even da child she was wit belonged to her sister who had gone back to skool to complete her education. 





Lady share her story, hope women can consider Giving their child away to somebody that CARES rather than DUMPING/KILLING the baby after Birth (Video)



Woman Shares her inspiring story to stop women from killing their unwanted child after birth

 Continued frm previous post. I left da hospital and called my bf telling him i couldnt do it and wat he said was "send me back da money i gave u, i know da child is nt mine i jst wanted to help u" i couldnt believe my ears i refused sending him da money and swore i would have my child even if i had to sell my soul to da devil. I knew i could nt take care of my child, i was da one feeding my dad and i and i had nt spoken to my mom for years and was nt ready to, my original plan was for me to give my child up for adoption after aving him. To cut dis long story short, i went to different fertility clinics to know if any couple would be willing to adopt my unborn son but i was advised against it by da nurses, dey all advised me to keep my child. I went to churches, different organisations, emailed lots of ppl in power at dat tym. I cried my eyes out night and day, prayed lyk a possessed woman but notin happened i kept on calling my bf to pls help me but he blocked my line and neva replyed my test eventually a church called me and said dey had a couple who wanted to adopt a little boy but i refused cos den i had made up my mind to keep my child. God being faithful at 7/8months i got incontact wit a catholic organisation named JDPC who looked into my case and took me to a place named ozanom house for gurls like me. Two weeks after getting to da house i gave birth to my son, da organisation payed for my hospital bills and bought clothes and other tins for me and my son. A week later my mom got in contact wit me and when she found out i had given birth she asked me to cum live wit her wit my son. I breast fed and took care of my son for 1yr and 2months before leaving to pursue my dreams(i still go to see him often) wats my point in all dis? Aving a child is nt da end of da world, abortion is nt a choice, if u cant take care of ur child pls give him or her up for adoption. On da 29th of January my son will be two and i couldnt be more proud. If i can do it u can #stopkillinginnocentchildren.
Continued frm previous post. I left da hospital and called my bf telling him i couldnt do it and wat he said was "send me back da money i gave u, i know da child is nt mine i jst wanted to help u" i couldnt believe my ears i refused sending him da money and swore i would have my child even if i had to sell my soul to da devil.

 I knew i could nt take care of my child, i was da one feeding my dad and i and i had nt spoken to my mom for years and was nt ready to, my original plan was for me to give my child up for adoption after aving him. To cut dis long story short, i went to different fertility clinics to know if any couple would be willing to adopt my unborn son but i was advised against it by da nurses, dey all advised me to keep my child. I went to churches, different organisations, emailed lots of ppl in power at dat tym. 

I cried my eyes out night and day, prayed lyk a possessed woman but notin happened i kept on calling my bf to pls help me but he blocked my line and neva replyed my test eventually a church called me and said dey had a couple who wanted to adopt a little boy but i refused cos den i had made up my mind to keep my child. God being faithful at 7/8months i got incontact wit a catholic organisation named JDPC who looked into my case and took me to a place named ozanom house for gurls like me. 


Two weeks after getting to da house i gave birth to my son, da organisation payed for my hospital bills and bought clothes and other tins for me and my son. A week later my mom got in contact wit me and when she found out i had given birth she asked me to cum live wit her wit my son. I breast fed and took care of my son for 1yr and 2months before leaving to pursue my dreams(i still go to see him often) wats my point in all dis? Aving a child is nt da end of da world, abortion is nt a choice, if u cant take care of ur child pls give him or her up for adoption. On da 29th of January my son will be two and i couldnt be more proud. If i can do it u can #stopkillinginnocentchildren . 




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